90 Day Engagement: Before the 90 days Couple Niles Valentine and Matilda Nti’s relationship is in trouble With the American man informing Matilda about delaying their wedding. Matilda is a 23-year-old from Offinso, Ghana, who met Niles from Mobile, Alabama two years ago. Niles is an autistic man who flew to meet her in Africa in season 7. Niles talked about being ordinary because he was “Otherwise.” Nils had difficulties in school and could not share with people. He was diagnosed with autism spectrum disorder and explained that it was difficult for him both physically and mentally.
Nails can be very blunt, That affected his ability to have normal relationships with people. Niles worked as a lawyer for peers, but also did deliveries to earn extra money. Meanwhile, Matilda had no work at home. She had to help her mother sell plants after her father passed away. Matilda wanted to go to malls and clubs. Her tiny town is not enough for Matilda’s big dreams. However, Matilda was unaware of what Niles really wanted.
How Niles met Matilda
Why Niles fell in love with Matilda
Nils had been dating Matilda for two years when they started filming the show. Niles revealed that he met Matilda on social media. She sent him a DM from somewhere. Niles didn’t know how Matilda found out his identity. She sent him a message”hello” to him and asked Niles how he was doing. Niles suspected Matilda was a catfish or perhaps a scammer since he admitted He thought she was “too good to be true“ How she was so very beautiful.
“When she smiles, it’s it, it, it does… it makes you feel some type of way.”
Niles admitted that the butterflies in his stomach weren’t just because of Matilda’s beauty. Given what he’s been through in life, He never thought that love was possible for him. However, Niles realized that he really loved Matilda. They talked every day when they knew each other for two years. They didn’t even need to talk to have fun and could do that just by sitting and staring at each other. Matilda also accepted him for who he was when Nils told Matilda he had autism spectrum disorder.
Niles proposed to Matilda on video call
Niles ran into trouble
Matilda made Nils feel that he is also anyone to have a partner, a family, get married and find happiness. It was all Nils had ever wanted. Niles looked forward to bringing Matilda to the US. Niles was so loved by Matilda That he couldn’t wait and proposed to her over the phone. He was really happy when Matilda told him yes. But from there it started to go quickly.
To his surprise, Matilda left “Full steam ahead“And was planning everything for a wedding during his trip to Ghana. Matilda’s excitement began to stress Niles. He wondered why Matilda was rushing the process of getting married so quickly. He wondered why Matilda didn’t want to wait until They are together. But he thought it was a “Cultural thing“And that she was Matilda received pressure from “Outside.” Nils still wanted to get to know Matilda better, so that they could go from there.
Why Niles wanted to delay their marriage
Niles had his reasons for pushing the wedding to a later date
Niles is afraid to tell Matilda the truth. He believed that Matilda was the love of his life but was afraid she would dump him if he postponed the wedding. Niles didn’t want to lose the only woman he ever loved. Niles also knew he was Will spend at least $3,000 during the trip. Between the hotel bookings, the flight, and if the wedding actually happened, there were a lot of other expenses to deal with. Niles worked as a food delivery agent after his regular job so he could save up for his trip.
Niles spoke of the “bride priceHe had to pay Matilda’s family to get them to let him marry their daughter. Niles had no idea how much he would pay. Except that the wedding was an expense he didn’t think he could afford. Right now, he believed they needed to spend time together before they could commit to each other for the rest of their lives. Niles was overwhelmed every time Matilda brought up the situation. He began to act and hide his true feelings To satisfy Matilda with his answers.
Niles got engaged to Matilda in Ghana
Niles proposed to Matilda to distract her from the wedding
Niles planned a surprise for Matilda in Ghana. He books a salon visit for Matilda so she can get her nails done and tells her he wants to explore the place himself with GPS. Nils visited Mahmoud’s jewelry store in Accra, where he bought an engagement ring for Matilda. He felt the need to propose them personally. He thought it would be a good idea Tell Matilda, they had to stop the wedding while he proposed to her. He didn’t know if it would lessen the anger, but he felt it was his best idea.
Niles finally tells Matilda that it is too soon for them to get married
Niles broke Matilda’s heart
Niles Presented Matilda with a $234 ring. He saw that a “real” happiness was still possible with her. He wanted Matilda to see that he would come back and marry her, because his love for her was much deeper and much more timeless than whatever term they had agreed upon. He proposed to her in the memorial of the first president of Ghana. Later that night, Niles and Matilda headed to a club named Zen Garden. Niles braved the loud environment by wearing noise-canceling earplugs. He had to focus and tell Matilda the truth.
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Matilda was very happy because it is not common in Ghana for someone to plan such a romantic proposal. She was looking forward to going to Kumasi to prepare for their wedding. Niles told Matilda that they couldn’t necessarily do the wedding on the trip because he wanted to give her the best He probably knew and wanted to know her better, which was not possible during the trip. Matilda angrily tells Niles that this is a shameful situation for her and that people will laugh at her. Niles wanted Matilda to show people her ring as proof of his commitment.
Matilda confirmed that she is married to Niles
Matilda and Niles are husband and wife
Matilda was hoping to become Niles’ bride in two weeks. Now she wondered if he even loved her. Matilda, confused, left the premises of the club. She said she felt like “Die“How she ran out. However, according to a post by blogger 90dayfiance_alexaWho discovered Matilda’s Facebook account, the 90 Day Engagement: Before the 90 days Couple may be married. Matilda posted a picture of herself dressed in bridal attire for what appeared to be a wedding ceremony on September 16, 2023.
90 Day Engagement: Before the 90 days It airs Sundays at 8pm EDT on TLC.
Source: 90dayfiance_alexa/ Instagram, 90 day fiance/ YouTube
A deeper look into the lives of couples established in 90 Day Fiancé, 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days is a reality TV/documentary series that follows potential spouses from a foreign country and their lead-up to their journey to America. The show documents the early days of the relationship across the ocean and the K-1 visa process required for the spouse to live in the new country. Couples struggle with culture shock, language barriers and the opinions of friends and families as they prepare to take the final leap.
- Release date
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August 6, 2017
- Seasons
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6
- Network
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TLC