90 Day Fiance star Tammy Slaton is Preparing to re-enter the dating scene after losing 500 poundsand it's exciting to see her branching out after a body makeover, as her new maturity gives her a lot of depth. Yes, the passage of time has changed Tammy, making her older, wiser and more charismatic. In the past, Tammy was moody and sometimes ungrateful, but then again, she was trapped in a body that betrayed her. Now that she has been released from that prison, she is very different, and the changes have made her beautiful inside and out.
Her desire to form another romantic connection is inspiring, as she has been hurt before, and this time, she wants to date a woman. Her worst suffering was the death of the sweet and gentle poet Caleb Willingham, who called her his “sunflower.” Her ex-husband was an angelic man who treated her like a queen, bringing her little gifts that probably made her feel like a fairytale princess. Unfortunately, he was unable to overcome his food addiction.
Tammy looks great, but how she feels is more important. Does she love herself? Does she appreciate what she sees in the mirror? These are the important questions, and right now, it seems like she's really valuing herself. Yes, she still has moments of doubt, but the insecurity that led her to argue with others has practically disappeared. As Tammy dances, sings and interacts with fans, she shows a softer side that highlights her great appreciation for life and its wonders.
Changes in Tammy's Life Expanded Her Mind
She's making the most of being alive
Experiences like this will radically change the way a person thinks. Although Tammy still gets hurt by trolls sometimes, it seems her lust for life is winning out. She turns to the light as much as she can, and her own light always shines. Tammy uses her talents as a performer and influencer to express herself and inspire others.
What she went through is unique and as she lets go of insecurity, she gets closer to her essence. Tammy, the glamorous fashionista, is becoming the woman she always wanted to be. Some people may try to prevent this metamorphosis, but they cannot. It's happening inside her, at the soul level.
Tammy is experiencing the world in a different way
It makes sense that she's different than she used to be
No one lives forever, and at some point, everyone will have to decide what's important and how to get the most joy out of their existence. It is essential to reach this point and choose happiness. Tammy he has. Some people find joy in making things, like art. Others are focused on their families. Some people enjoy being in group situations. What’s important is self-understanding – it’s about really discovering yourself and using your time to maximize happiness.
What awakened this feeling of kindness and this reverence for life was physical freedom. For a long time, Tammy was unable to move easily. She couldn't enjoy the world in the same way as other people. She became disabled due to weight gain.
Most people with disabilities have to accept being different, and this process can take a long time. Sometimes this never happens. Tammy is one of the lucky ones – thanks to the surgery, she was released from what probably felt like a life sentence. In the future, she may become even more fit. The future is bright, with infinite possibilities. Things are happening to her that previously seemed completely impossible. Tammy can also have skin removal surgery.
Tammy is smiling and shining
She gets sad sometimes, but not very often
It's natural that Tammy feels more powerful and sees the magic in life. It's all around you. There is no way she can continue as before. Change is happening, whether she tries to make it happen or not. So allowing herself to change is the best thing she can do. Trolls may try to slow down the process, but her evolution is guaranteed. Tammy, “proud of herself” in the Instagram post above, he could barely walk and now he dances.
Tammy should date even if things don't work out. She should immerse herself in life, trying new things. However, she should not deny herself the comfort she currently enjoys. Although she is a different human being, she has always been an artist. Tammy is someone that people enjoy watching. She has star quality.
With or without a partner, Tammy will have this. It's her talent, and it's hers alone. Since no one can take it away, she must feel free to experience life. She can always find her center again if she loses her balance.
Tammy is a star and now she's using her platform to inspire others – it seems like she really wants to help them. One of the best things about maturing and becoming a stronger human being is that it leads a person to protect and help other people. If a person is strong enough, he will be confident. They can use their energy to be heroes for others instead of being consumed by their own insecurities.
Tammy has changed in a stunning way, becoming a beautiful person inside. It's been fascinating to watch her come out of her shell. She will never come back.
Hopefully, she will find someone to love, but even if her romantic dreams don't come true, she can continue to develop as a human being. She can develop her talents, use her platform to uplift others, and enjoy friendships and family. The new Tammy is someone with grace, compassion and wisdom. It's amazing what the surgery has done for her, and she must feel like it's a miracle.
Since she was touched by this kind of luck after decades of suffering, her transformation is heartbreaking. The right partner will help her enjoy who she is now and will never hold her back. They will, as Bruce Springsteen sang in “Born To Run”, “guard” Tammy's “dreams and visions.”
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