90 Day Fiance: Happily Ever After?
star Loren Brovarnik is seeking attention with her social media posts. Loren and her husband Alexei Brovarnik, both 36, married in 2015 after meeting in Israel on a birthright trip. They are parents to three children: Shai, 4, Asher, 3, and Ariel, 2. Loren and Alexei have made numerous appearances in the franchise since appearing in 90 Day Fiance 3rd season, including its spin-off Loren and Alexei: after the 90 days.
Loren is open about the toll motherhood has taken on her, including weight and body image issues. She decided to undergo a mommy makeover in 2023, which was documented in 90 Day Fiance: Happily Ever After season 8. Loren now has her sights set on becoming a mom influencer. She’s honest about the challenges she faces raising three young children, which resonates with many parents. However, Loren’s reaction to the criticism she receives indicates that she may want more than just offering support to other struggling parents.
Loren directs her Instagram posts to Mommy Shamers
Your posts have a defensive tone
Loren’s Instagram posts about parenthood and children often receive brutal comments. No one deserves to see their children criticized. But instead of taking the high road, Loren chooses to fight back against her critics. In addition to responding to comments, she often takes a proactive stance, addressing Instagram posts directly to mom-shamers.
In November, Loren posted a side-by-side comparison of family photos taken in 2023 and 2024. In the caption, she wrote: “BEFORE you start commenting on how we look, how tired or unwell we are, or too thin or unhealthy or [preferably] how happy we seem, whatever it is – we are parents of three very beautiful and very active children. Are we exhausted? YES! Are we happy? YES! Would we have it any other way? NO!” Loren’s post sends a valid message that families shouldn’t be judged by outward appearances.
However, Loren’s delivery does more harm than good. By focusing on the criticism she is receiving, Loren empowers the haters and spreads their negativity. Loren’s beautiful family photo became an aggressive message. Most of their posts follow a similar pattern of preemptive defense, which encourages even more negativity in the comments.
Loren’s social media posts are intentionally cryptic
She uses drama to get attention
Loren also has a habit of being intentionally vague on social media to get more attention.. In October, Loren shared heartwarming photos of herself and wrote, “you never know what someone is dealing with internally, mentally, emotionally, personally.” Loren’s message is true and very important. But instead of highlighting mental health awareness, her post hints at the drama in Loren’s personal life without providing any clarification. This left commenters criticizing Loren for making it all about her and being purposely cryptic to draw more attention to herself.
She did not elaborate and never mentioned a hospital visit or health issues in subsequent posts.
Similarly, Loren received criticism for alluding to a medical issue after sharing a selfie of what appeared to be a hospital. She did not elaborate and never mentioned a hospital visit or health issues in subsequent posts. It’s not fair for Loren to use her followers’ sympathy to her advantage. Her tendency to be intentionally cryptic causes fans to accuse her of exaggerating or misleading them.
Loren seems to like attention, even if it’s negative
She knows her controversial posts will upset people
Loren and Alexei saw extremely harsh reactions to their vacation in Israel in June. They posted photos of themselves at the sites of the October 7 massacre, but their behavior did not fit the grim scene. Loren and Alexei even posed smiling for a memorial. Commenters criticized the couple for turning the experience into social media content.
Instead of acknowledging the sensitive emotions surrounding the issue, Loren continued to post about her vacation in Israel. Even knowing the negativity she would face, Loren and Alexei were firm in their conviction that they were doing nothing wrong. Experience proved that Loren would rather receive negative attention than none at all.
Loren is attracting critics to build her brand
She is motivated by her goal of becoming a successful influencer
Loren’s social media presence is more than entertainment; It’s her livelihood. She uses her accounts to advertise products, which means every follower is also a potential customer. The more followers Loren has, regardless of whether they like her or not, the more opportunities she has to make a sale. She uses parenthood as a way to gain strength because it’s something a lot of people can relate to.
She has an incredible platform through 90 Day Fiance with the potential to offer support to other women in difficulty.
Loren’s identity is wrapped up in her role as a wife and mother, so she should use her popularity to talk about her experiences with motherhood. Loren should share her experiences with confidence and not let trolls dictate her message. She has an incredible platform through 90 Day Fiance with the potential to offer support to other women in difficulty. Unfortunately, Loren’s decision to draw even more attention to the negativity not only hurts her, but also encourages negative comments that could be hurtful to other moms.
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