90 Day Fiance franchise star Syngin Colchester has split from Tania Maduro, and now he's calling another woman, Shayna, his wife, but I think this Syngin will eventually get tired of his new, supposedly serious relationship. There are already major red flags, including the fact that Syngin and Shayna are interested in exploring polygamy. Although there are women who desire polygamy, in my experience, it is men who seek this patriarchal relationship model. This tends to make women unhappy.
Syngin doesn't exactly have a gift for making women feel fulfilled. At first he's a great partner, but then everything falls apart. He is a classic “lazy Libra” who does everything to avoid adulthood. With 90 Day FianceTania Maduro, he had a vibrant and exciting partner. She wanted to have children with him, but he couldn't really commit to that kind of “white picket fence” lifestyle. He preferred to be free, and his laissez-faire attitude toward monogamy led to disaster. In 2021, Tania had to pick up the pieces after what she considered a “forever” relationship imploded.
Shayna brought a pet home without her permission
Syngin may not want that kind of responsibility
singin appears to already have pets at home and told his partner Shayna that he had reached his limit. He didn't want any new animals brought home. Shayna shamelessly defied her new man, and now they have another pet - a little lizard who is admittedly very cute. See the little creature in Syngin's Instagram post above.
As it looks quite comfortable resting on his arm, Syngin, who is on a weight loss journey, appears to have developed a fondness for the lizard. However, he still complained about the situation, although he seemed to be joking. Maybe he doesn't mind his new “friend” accompanying him during car rides.
While Syngin's complaint was light-hearted, it could signal trouble in the future. Shayna can do whatever she wants without really considering the way her decisions make her partner feel. In a relationship, both sides must make big decisions together. If Shayna keeps doing this kind of thing, Syngin might pull a classic Libra trick, which is to silently store the anger that comes up in the form of passive-aggressive acts, from cheating to backhanded compliments and more.
Does Syngin want to be the next Kody Brown?
He is considering a polygamous union with Shayna and another woman
singin doesn't look like someone with enough energy to handle a harembut unfortunately, he is interested in exploring polygamy. Honestly, it's hard for me to imagine Syngin living with two women and trying to please them both. This is mainly because he seemed constantly overwhelmed by the quite normal "demands" of a woman - Tania. Above, he is living with two glamorous women, as per his Instagram post.
Perhaps Syngin imagines a Playboy mansion version of polygamy, with sexy, scantily clad women waiting for him in some grotto. The reality of plural relationships is very different. Imagine Sister Wives' Kody Brown being criticized by his exes while trying to please a feisty Robyn Brown to see when this type of relationship model (which honestly doesn't benefit women) often comes to fruition. Everyone ends up unhappy.
Syngin may be relaxed enough to make polygamy work. In theory, if a man isn't too controlling, a plural relationship can thrive. However, the real “red flag” issue here is that Shayna may not actually want to be polygamous. If that's the case, these two are doomed. Yes, she may be willing to live with it for a while, but eventually, her anger, jealousy, and general disgust with your relationship will come to the surface, and after she shares her true feelings, nothing will be the same.
Does the fact that Syngin seems like such a bland guy but wants such a bold relationship model make me question his motives? Are they sexual? I think so.
I don't care if Syngin wants to sleep with two women. That doesn't bother me. I'm a liberal person, and as long as everyone involved is on board with the situation, that's good enough for me. However, there is another concern I have, which is the financial element. Syngin is not known for his love of “grind” (and I'm talking about work here, and nothing else). Possibly, and I may not be giving him enough credit here, he could benefit financially from having two female partners earning money and sharing it with him.
Polygamous unions don't excite me. In fact, they are disgusting, but I am open-minded enough to consider the fact that other people are raised differently. They see these unions as good things and not as emotional prisons that leave women suffering in silence, in accordance with the shockingly sad principle of “sacred solitude.”
Sister Wives shouldn't be jealous or complain - that seems like a lot to ask. If I found myself in some compound with a bunch of other women, trapped in a polygamous union, I would do everything I could to remove myself from that twisted dynamic, even if I had to plan something. Escape from Alcatrazjailbreak style.
In fact, I would probably be kicked out of the clan, or whatever it's called, long before I had to escape. My crime would be insubordination. The thing is, I wouldn't last long in that situation and I bet a lot of women would be the same. Shayna could be.
I think Syngin and Shayna will give up
Syngin doesn't have the best track record
So in light of these red flags, I'm ending this early in the game - I think the couple will break up someday. I hope I'm wrong – I don't particularly want to be right. I would prefer Syngin to be happy. However, your eccentric demand for polygamy is concerning - I know there are women who prefer non-monogamous situations, but I haven't actually met many of them - what about you?
I find it kind of amusing that he wants to try this, just because I can see the potential drama brewing. If he can make it work, great. THE 90 Day Fiance star is following her own path and doesn't deserve to be judged for possibly rejecting a traditional relationship model. However, I personally think he should try to strengthen this relationship before changing their dynamic forever.
90 Day Fiance Fans can watch the show and spin-off on the Discovery+ streaming platform.
Sources: Singin Colchester/Instagram, Singin Colchester/Instagram