The golden bachelorette The Chock Chapple star is rumored to be Joan Vassos’ final choice, based on spoilers from Reality Stevebut he fits some characteristics of an incomplete partner, and Chock may even be a player. At this stage, Joan’s had the opportunity to evaluate the personalities of several men. She analyzed them carefully, noting the pros and cons. She seems to prefer Chock, a wealthy insurance specialist who is a proud father.
While Chock seems like a great prank, certain clues paint a darker picture. If she is ignoring the warning signs, she could suffer heartbreak in the future.
Gerry Turner looked incredible early on. On The Golden BachelorThe tanned septuagenarian was a captivating presence – a man who appeared to be a decent human being. However, when the dust settled, Gerry looked like a different man. He rescued his marriage quickly, not wanting to leave his beloved Indiana to live with Theresa Nist. Their marriage ended after just a few months, and Gerry began showing off his “happier than ever” post-split life on Instagram. Soon, Joan may discover that her Prince Charming turns into a frog.
Chock’s Love Bombing Joan
Is he really that in love?
Love bombing is not good. When someone exaggerates too much, they may be playing a role. Yes, from time to time people fall madly in love – they express their emotions as much as they can and with as much passion as possible. However, Chock, who is used to selling himself thanks to his experience in the insurance industry, may actually be using “hard sell” techniques to convince her that he is the man of her dreams.
The hard sell is not that different from love bombing. When a man loves to bombard a woman, he goes overboard to dazzle her. Once her brain is scrambled by “ultra romance,” she becomes remarkably malleable. This means that a bewitched woman may be open to making spectacularly bad decisions, such as hastily marrying someone who is basically a complete stranger.
If Type-A Chock is just trying to “win” on the show, she’s in trouble. Love should be about sharing, not a way for a man to feel like he’s winning in life. So Joan should consider the fact that the kind of romance that happens while the cameras are rolling is a little different… well, a lot different. It is much more likely to have a “theater” component.
Chock Control Problems Are Clear Warning Signs
He wants all her attention
Chockwho is making chicken soup online to get likes and comments, as seen above, has done everything to differentiate himself from other suitors. He’s super attentive, but he wants all her attention in return. Over time, she may feel suffocated by this type of monitoring.
Most people want freedom – they want physical and mental freedom! The ability to wander, in terms of thoughts and exploration of the world, is extremely important. It could be argued that a man who wants every bit of his partner’s mind, body, and soul is trying to control her.
Control is often an illusion. A person can do what they “should” but rebel internally. If they do, will they still be under control? People are complex and most of them need a little space. If Joan wants to give attention to Chock, but also to others, this could cause problems.
Likewise, the experienced and astute womanizer knows that commanding a woman’s full attention makes it more difficult for her to leave the relationship. However, he may not be as committed as he seems. Some gamers love bombing a number of women at the same time – they can even use the same lines to pull them.
The point is that they can spin a number of plates simultaneously, asking each female in the rotation to give them “everything.” So this focus on getting a woman’s attention, day and night, could actually be a sign of a cheater. Whatever that means, Chock might be trying too hard. They haven’t known each other for a long time. Chock may be too good to be true.
He is trying to isolate Joan from other suitors
Is this about love or power?
It’s a fine line between love and hate. There is also a fine line between love and a power trip. When Shock, according to the thegoldenbacheloretteabc clip shown above, tries to isolate Joan by isolating her from other suitors, as he did when he sat “so close” to her during the group bowling date. He may feel powerful, but is he in love? It’s very difficult to say for sure.
Again, the idea of “winning” a reality TV competition may be greatly influencing your behavior. By isolating her from the herd, Chock can feel like the King of the Jungle.
Romance is a gamble and that’s the fun of it. If the result were guaranteed, the game wouldn’t be as fun to play. It’s a matter of anticipation. Sometimes waiting and doubt, curiosity and excitement lead to true love connections. Other times, the investment (energy, time and general “care”) simply isn’t worth it. At the moment, Joan thinks Chock is amazing, but people can change quickly. When they do, they may never be who they were before.
If Chock is playing Joan, she’ll figure it out as she goes along, and when she finally figures it out, she might freeze the man who seemed so perfect in the film. The golden bachelorette. So this could herald the start of another disastrous post-show relationship. After the camera crew leaves, real life begins and people aren’t perfect. They will relax out of the spotlight and eventually show their partners their dark sides. This is why so many Bachelor Nation romances don’t go far.
The golden bachelorette airs Wednesdays at 8pm EST on ABC.
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