Chelsea should have seen the red flags with Jeff (there were clues he was unhappy)

Selling sunsetChelsea Lazcani thought she had it all – The husband, the kids, the career – But fate had something brutal – her husband cheated on her and destroyed their marriage. The thing is, Chelsea should probably have seen the red flags waving in the breeze. If she had really paid attention to the little hints he had thrown her away, she wouldn’t have felt so blinded when rumors about Jeff Lazconi’s infidelity began to circulate. When that happened, she might have gotten the lyrics to Carrie Underwood’s hit, “Better He Cheats” in her head:

Now he is probably dancing slowly

With a blond-blond tramp

Is Chelsea too busy listening to the voice inside her that is trying to warn her that something is wrong? Maybe so. Another possibility is that Chelsea is too full of himself Even notice the problems that are quickly reaching critical mass. During Selling sunset Season 8, Chelsea is definitely on an ego high – she seemed to believe she was on another plateau, looking down on Bre Tiesi and questioning her choices. Now, Chelsea knows what it feels like to have a big big problem.

Is Chelsea Lazkani really that clueless?

Jeff told her he wasn’t happy!

Chelsea was so wrapped up in her career that it’s possible that she just didn’t really absorb what Jeff said to her, but he definitely tried to express his dissatisfaction with their marriage. When he asked her to spend more time at home with him and the kids, she listened but said nothing. She didn’t really change her work habits. The “Queen of Manhattan Beach” put work ahead of everything else. She loved her family but her desire to rule the California real estate scene was just as strong.

When Jeff was allegedly spotted cozying up to another woman in a Hollywood hotel, all hell broke loose. Now, it seems like Chelsea’s trying to save face. She says she’s the one who made sure Bre revealed the harmful rumors on screen.

Is Chelsea really a good actress? On the screen, it seemed like she was apart of the seams. Then, it seemed like she lost weight due to heartbreak, stopped wearing the fun outfits she was known for, and generally became a mere shadow of herself.

Chelsea is like a prize-fighter who has been knocked out for a minute. She lost one fight, but there will be more, and she will win her fair share. If she tries again with someone else, she will be more careful. She met Jeff on a dating app and got sucked into his world pretty quickly. Maybe she didn’t do her due diligence. Chelsea filed for divorce after approximately seven years of marriage.

Next time, she can take it slow, and moll over every red flag along the way. There is no rush, no pressure. She can be single until she isn’t. She can focus on her work and children. This is a good life – not everything has to be about a man.

Now, Jeff calls out his ex. He is getting trusted in headlines, and could be doing some damage control. However, there is always a chance that he is telling the truth. He said his ex-wife was

physically aggressive,

As per site documents, according to TMZ.

Chelsea may have been the hot head in their marriage. She would probably dispute this – it’s a messy divorce, after all. What is clear is that the two are better off apart. It’s good that their marriage is over, even though it was painful for Chelsea. It is sad that their children have to deal with the emotional pain of the divorce, but kids can be happy after their parents break up.

Chelsea should have valued Jeff’s needs more

This does not mean that it is her fault that he cheated

Chelsea Has opened up about losing weight because of “pressure” In the Instagram post shown above. In the post, Chelsea glowed in a gorgeous red dress, and talked about losing “Twenty pounds.” That weight looks so good on you. She recovered and, to her credit, doesn’t try to pretend it’s no big deal. The divorce hurt her, and why should she pretend it wasn’t? There is nothing wrong with loving a partner and then being sad when something bad happens.

Chelsea has been involved in so much drama lately

She is a lightning rod for controversy

According to Bricesanders TikTok, Chelsea reacts to all the drama that has been swirling around her since Jeff’s alleged cheating came to light. It doesn’t seem like Chelsea avoids drama – on the contrary, she courts it by sharing her opinions about everything that happened. She says her divorce is not related to the cheating rumors. Some people may not believe this, but it may be true.

However, the fact that she filed for divorce after the rumors were exposed seems to tell a different story. Right now, the stars of the show are all doing damage control. They are trying to look good as a lot of rumors circulate online. They may try to control narratives in order to seem like better people. So, right now, it’s too soon to judge Chelsea or her situation, or anyone else involved.

however, Selling sunsetChelsea should have paid more attention to the red flags. When Jeff tells her what he’s not happy with, he lets out an amber alert. It was a rather muted signal that he wanted out, but easy enough to understand. She didn’t try to change, and that’s why she had to understand that there would be consequences.

Sources: TMZ, Chelsea Lazkani/ Instagram, Bricesander/TikTok