Tejaswi “TJ” Goswami and Kimberly Rochelle from 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way Have decided to part ways, and There are several understandable reasons behind their decision. Kimberly fell in love with her Indian boyfriend after finding him on social media. She had dreamed of him before, she felt that meeting him was more than just a coincidence. Kimberly didn’t wait long after meeting TJ and booked her flight to India. She traveled to Jaipur, hoping to marry her Indian partner. Unfortunately, things did not go as planned. Kimberly struggled to understand and adhere to Hindu culture and religious values.
As Kimberly spent more time with TJ, she realized that her in-laws did not accept her. She was devastated by her sister-in-law’s constant interference, and hurt by her sister-in-law’s in-laws. Kimberly also didn’t feel impressed by the apartment that TJ built for her because it didn’t look American enough. Despite all the challenges, Kimberly continued to stay with TJ, hoping for a happy ending. She married him and appeared confident in her decision. sad, Kimberly’s married life lasted only a few yearsAnd her relationship with TJ ended before they could reach any notable milestones together.
Kimberly says TJ changed after marriage
TJ has already returned his love for Kimberly
Recently, Kimberly opened up about why she decided to leave India and return to the United States. During an Instagram Live, she shared the real reasons her marriage with TJ failed. Kimberly said the main issue is TJ’s changed behavior.
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She said he used to treat her with love and ease her insecurities before marriage, but things changed after they got married. TJ apparently became less empathetic towards her And more self-centered. The reality star claimed that she had not seen such a kind and sweet version of TJ since their marriage.
Kimberly & TJ don’t know how to communicate with each other
Kimberly does not speak TJ’s native language, Hindi While speaking to her followers, Kimberly admitted that both she and TJ were to blame for the collapse of their marriage.
The 90 day fiance Franchise alum acknowledged that they both have communication issues, primarily stemming from their cultural and language differences. Kimberly explained that a major contributing factor to the Miscommunication is that English is not TJ’s first language. She did not attack her husband, but instead took full responsibility for the situation, holding herself and TJ equally responsible for the communication gap. So far, TJ has not issued a statement on the matter and has temporarily deactivated his social media accounts.
TJ made Kimberly feel rejected
Kimberly does not receive any physical affection from TJ
Kimberly cried during her latest Instagram Live session, sharing how she pleaded with TJ to love her. She revealed that her husband had stopped showing her physical affection for some time. The 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way Season 5 alum said that She had to ask him to kiss her or hold her hand, which took a toll on her mental health.. She blamed TJ for making her feel rejected, saying that no person in the world should ever have to ask their partner for a little love, because such behavior is truly harmful.
Kimberly & TJ fight over price
It seems like TJ has a quick temper
Kimberly revealed that she and TJ have been fighting a lot in recent months. During her live Instagram session, she shared a shocking incident where TJ bought her a pack of fries as a nice gesture, even though she can’t eat the staple food in India. When Kimberly complained about it, TJ became enraged and grabbed the prize from her handsThrowing them away. The 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way Alum blamed his wife for the incident while she beat him in revenge.
TJ punched Kimberly in the face before their wedding
Kimberly retaliated by hitting TJ back
Kimberly also spoke about an incident of domestic abuse that occurred before her marriage to TJ. She mentioned that TJ once punched her in the face, and she hit him back. Fortunately, the situation did not escalate into a full-blown wrestling match. Kimberly assured everyone of that TJ hasn’t raised his hands on her since then.
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However, she hints that the incident had a lasting impact on her because she was “physically abused” like a child Kimberly’s shocking statement revealed that her relationship with TJ was flawed long before they got married.
Kimberly rips up her wedding pictures with TJ
Kimberly’s name is misspelled in the wedding album
Kimberly discussed the upsetting incident when she tore up her wedding pictures, as reported by @shabootydotcom. This finally causes TJ to ask her to leave him. She clarified that she only destroyed the pictures with her name on them, not the entire wedding album. Kimberly recalled her wedding day, remembering how Her name was misspelled on the decorations and album, which symbolized her marriage’s state. Kimberly expressed regret for tearing up the wedding pictures and apologized for her actions, acknowledging that both she and TJ were at fault for the situation.
TJ does not want to undergo marriage counseling
Kimberly claims that TJ is giving her the silent treatment
Kimberly acknowledged that she and TJ needed marriage counseling to resolve their marital issues. However, none of them have tried it yet. It seems that TJ’s cultural background and his current mindset have prevented him from undergoing marriage counseling. He may believe that ignoring the problem will make it go away. Kimberly pointed out that TJ no longer communicates with his family. She suggested that her husband might be isolating himself to have space but also considered the possibility that He gives others the silent treatment as a form of manipulation.
Kimberly says TJ doesn’t want to divorce her
TJ didn’t stop Kimberly from returning to the US
Kimberly has expressed interest in getting divorced and moving on. However, she admitted that TJ doesn’t want the same thing and would never sign the papers. Kimberly discusses her husband’s lack of interest in divorcing her, hinting that He wants to keep her trapped in the marriage. While she said that TJ will not let their marriage end, she also revealed that he is not trying to stop her from returning to the United States. Therefore, the lack of interest in getting a divorce by the former cast member of 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way is likely due to cultural taboos.
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