The real reason why Božo doesn’t want Vanja as his girlfriend (find out why he’s pulling away from her)

90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days the real star Božo Vrdoljak The reason for not wanting to date Vanja Grbic is shocking. Božo is a carefree 38-year-old man from Split who stars in the 7th season. Vanja is a 41-year-old man from Florida who flew to Croatia to meet Božo in person for the first time on the show. Vanja and Božo met on a dating app while she was spending a night in Split. She decided to pursue a long-distance relationship with Božo. She described Božo as a hot jock.

Božo decided not to meet Vanja while she was on a plane flying to Croatia. Božo met Vanja at the airport, where he gave her a vase of lily he found in a trash can. Božo took Vanja to a cooking class and proudly told everyone they were just “good friends.” In the last episode, he told Vanja that he didn’t feel any romantic chemistry. He felt sorry for Vanja being under the impression that they were boyfriend and girlfriend.

Božo was jealous of Vanja’s success

Unemployed Božo’s ego was hurt by Vanja’s many jobs

During her 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days In the intro, Vanja showed off her belly dancing skills in a crowded restaurant. She revealed that she loved stretching herself and pushing herself to achieve and learn new things. Vanja learned to blow fire in one day from a man she randomly met on the beach. She revealed that she had four careers. In addition to dancing, Vanja was a professional permanent makeup artist, vegan baker and medical sales representative. She called herself a “type A personality”And a Jill to all trades.

Vanja told the cameras that Božo was a very successful basketball player. When Božo was introduced, Božo said he wasn’t even 6 feet tall, but he played 3-on-3 basketball and semi-professional 5-on-5 basketball. He was lying to the cameras because, during a conversation with his mother at the end of the episode, he admitted to telling Vanja that he played basketball, to which his mother responded that Božo wasn’t making money playing basketball since it was another “recreational thing.” Božo finally revealed that he made some money playing basketball.

“Vanja, she doesn’t know that I’m unemployed, so I’m creating some anxieties, you know, fear.”

However, he was soon replaced by other players who were “better, higher” than him. Božo felt insecure about the fact that Vanja was a successful woman and did not come close to her qualities and the hard work that Vanja put in to be successful. This made Božo feel like a “a little less expensive.” He felt like he wasn’t good enough for her and that he would disappoint her when Vanja found out.

Božo had nowhere to live

Božo lived with his mother and aunt

Vanja also seemed unaware that Božo had his own house. Božo jokingly talked about how he felt most comfortable while telling jokes, but the difference between him and Chevy Chase, Steve Martin, Martin Short, Eddie Murphy and Martin Lawrence is that he lived in his mother’s house. Božo had to live under the same roof as his mother and her sister, Božo’s aunt. He felt like a “Old and rusty Cadillac”of living there without being married or having children. Božo was shown praying for a job and an apartment of his own.

Božo was still in love with his ex-girlfriend

Božo was together with his ex for six years before meeting Vanja

Božo hurt Vanja the first time she planned a trip to Croatia, a few months into their relationship. Božo started acting a little strange. He didn’t answer Vanja’s calls and wasn’t that communicative. One day, suddenly he called Vanja to say he couldn’t see her anymore because he was seeing someone else. A few months later, he texted Vanja saying that he was no longer with the other woman and that he wanted to work on his relationship with Vanja again. Božo referred to this woman as his “greater love.”

“Unfortunately, I put sport first. I never took it on any trip. I never took advantage of it on special occasions. Then she left me and broke my heart.”

Božo is back with his ex-girlfriend

Božo found his one true love again

Božo and his girlfriend were together for six years and since then he never had a serious relationship until he met Vanja. However, it seems like Božo and Vanja’s storyline never developed into anything serious. According to Happy Pants, Božo posted a photo with his new girlfriend Rachelle in March 2023 before filming 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days. This appears to have been the woman he first dumped Vanja on. Rachelle, from Montana, who now lives in Bosnia, has since appeared in several photos with Božo on her social media, suggesting that Božo never ended up dating Vanja.

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