Vanja Grbic 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days is revealing all the lies Božo Vrdoljak told her before she flew to Croatia to meet him in season 7. Vanja is a 41-year-old woman from Florida who is a skilled dancer, baker, makeup artist and medical representative, but fell in love with the unemployed Božo. Vanja and Božo matched on a dating app while she was on a post-breakup solo trip. Božo separated from Vanja halfway because he wanted to get back with his ex-girlfriend. Božo returned to reconcile with Vanja.
However, when Vanja went to see Božo in person, he dismissed the relationship, saying they were friends.
A clip from the upcoming episode shared by ET shows Vanja and Božo enjoying an outdoor lunch shows Vanja “confused” about her purpose for coming to Split if it weren’t for their relationship. Božo insisted that he wanted Vanja to spend three weeks with him and have fun. He hadn’t thought about his “deeper future things.” He regretted disappointing Vanja. “I came here for a relationship,” Vanja continued. She stated that Božo and she said “I love you”to each otherwith him asking her to come to Croatia to meet him in person.
“I never said ‘I love you’ and stuff… I never said ‘I love you’.”
Božo asks her to “check”. Vanja takes out her phone to show her Božo’s messages, saying: “Thank you my love” and “I love you.” Vanja’s answers are “We agree there. Hahahaha” and, “And I you.” Božo’s next message to Vanja is “You didn’t tell me today ‘I love you’.”Now caught red-handed, Božo says: “That’s me, sorry,”since he admits that what he wrote means he loves her“obviously.” Vanja points out that Božo is laughing, but she took what he said at face value because, for her, it was a “serious thing.”
What Vanja exposing Božo’s lies means for the relationship
Vanja deserves better than Božo
Vanja confronting Božo about the statements he made before she went to meet him was a long time coming. Božo was scared as Vanja headed towards him. He ghosted her because he wasn’t sure he wanted to meet her. Božo had started comparing himself to Vanja. He thought he wasn’t worthy of dating her because he didn’t have a job and lived with his aunt and mother, while Vanja had four jobs and led a successful life in the USA. The truth is that Božo wanted to get back with his ex-girlfriend.
Vanja was not ready to be presented as a “friend” by Božo to strangers in Split the day she arrived there. He suddenly wanted to take it easy after all the times he told her he loved her. Vanja saw a future with Božo, especially after her previous relationship was a disaster and she caught her fiancé cheating, red-handed. Yet, Vanja also needed to leave Božo after realizing he wasn’t into her and never would be. Božo lied to Vanja about being a football player. He certainly didn’t tell her about his living situation.
Our take on Vanja exposing Božo’s lies
Božo is gaslighting Vanja – he is wasting her time
It should have been Vanja who rejected him and not the other way around. Božo saw Vanja as a rebound as he invented ways to get back with his ex. The rumor is that Božo reconciled with his ex-girlfriend after filming 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days. Božo tricked Vanja and wasted her time by making her travel across the world to meet him. Vanja lied and is being criticized by Božo in every scene they are together. She needs to know that they were never meant to exist and fly back home.
Source: ET/YouTube
A deeper look into the lives of the settled couples on 90 Day Fiancé, 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days is a reality show/documentary that follows a potential spouse from a foreign country and their preparations for their journey to America . The show documents the early days of the relationship across the ocean and the K-1 visa process required for the spouse to live in the new country. Couples struggle with culture shock, language barriers, and the opinions of friends and family as they prepare to take the final leap.
- Release date
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August 6, 2017
- Seasons
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6
- Network
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TLC